Good deeds and a gracious orientation are glamorous. Treating everyone with kindness and a smile does not require a lot of effort, yet can make a big difference in our hectic lives.That is really it, trying a little harder or a lot. There is something magical about glamour. You can not sleep in late everyday and expect the good life to happen or come your way. In anything you attempt , you have to be willing to give more than is expected. You have to be willing to chase your dreams as hard as you want it. Dare to take chances- even if it is just baby steps at first. The feeling is liberating. It is when we allow ourselves to dream that we create a better reality for ourselves- a better career, a better home even better memories, because we tried a little harder in the manner we entertained our friends. Become more creative, not because you have to but because you want to.Aim  for a quiet luxury one rooted in exceptional materials and artisanal craftsmanship . It is always about a whisper not a shout.