I scored an invite to P. Diddy’s legendary party in the summer, so it was off to the Hamptons .Those amazing white-sanded beaches in Long Island, New York. Believe me everyone, and I do mean everyone, will be giving you the up and down look while  at the party and around town . Which meant that I had to dress for this particular trip: The real key was to wear my finery as if it were an after thought. Think sophisticated disco looks, a stylish bikini for each day and a lounge-happy Hamptons attitude. The Hamptons is generally a very pared down, very relaxed atmosphere. Nothing structured. Just  very flowing, almost romantic choices.  While there , after all the partying was done. I made sure to treat myself to a meal at one of the  hottest new restaurants.