A life lived safely in monotone is not a life lived at all.  To really experience life you need to flirt with extremes . This is what differentiates the special moments from the everyday routine of our lives. Some of the most stylish people are living it up on not much. They just know how to reinvent a look with a belt or by wearing their hair a different way. They mix new and vintage. They may even put on a bold lipstick, add some heels and then proceed to wow on lookers with their  great style  and joie de vivre . So dressing up is about dreaming.  It is living it up  fabulously  and is worth doing well- as it gives much pleasure. You should have a few things in life that reaches beyond your expextations. Possibly beyond your means. Something that generates adrenaline. And excites you. Something that makes you feel one hundred percent more stunning and glamours .