Getting dressed for an occasion should not induce anxiety.It should be an exciting challenge to communicate who you are to the world, without saying a word. The most stylish women are those women who have the confidence to push things to the edge and yet still mange to look flawless. All this is accomplished while keeping within the confines of what is appropriate. Overbearing too stringent rules are the enemy of style. There are clues however and a fashion language and contexts that exists in any given situation. There is a right time and a right place for everything. This is completely true for matters of style. Each moment calls for a different stylistic essence and a different sense of impact, and mastery of this balance is an art form- a very learnable art form. The key to style success is knowing what this essence is and knowing how to effortlessly communicate in the language of fashion. You are not required to be fluent, but you want above all to be understood.